WHY are you telling me this?

I was just telling Heather today how sick I am of men making weird and inappropriate comments to me.

Examples:

• "I like your boobs.  They are really nice."  WHY are you telling me this?
  
• (The man I used to date)  "I used to date 24-year old bartenders.  A lot of women hit on me at work. In fact, of the 5,000 women I have done business with over the years, I would say 4,900 of them have hit on me. Even women who report to me hit on me." Again, WHY are you telling me this?

Today, in fact, a man with whom I am friends:

• "I get erect easily .... especially when any girl flirts with me." WHY are you telling me this?

As Heather rightly noted, it's like dealing with her children with these men. You have to say "Now ___, these are inappropriate comments, and you can't talk to people like this. If you say that again, you're going to have a time out.

Honestly, I thought the old school locker rooms were for this kind of talk. Go in your man cave or go talk to you guys friends about this crap. I don't want to hear it. It sets me into a middle RAGE.

Christine